The School Dance: A Metaphor

School DanceI remember my first school dance well. The awkwardness of pre-pubescent hormones combined with a complete inability to look cool to the rhythm of music. The only highlight worth remembering was hearing an epic track from a new band called U2.

The school dance serves as a fitting metaphor for the Christian life. Lots of people call themselves Christians, but their experience of following Christ varies greatly. Most will fit into one of four categories:

1. No-Show

People in this category may have prayed a prayer at some point in their life and would profess to being a Christian, but the primary focus of their life is not for Jesus. No-shows miss out on what being a follower of Christ is all about and never experience the joy and abundant life Jesus offers.

2. Wallflower

These are people who go through the motions. Wallflowers get to the dance, but they never get on the dance floor. They show up to church and occasionally pray, but there’s little engagement. They get glimpses of what life in Christ could be and should be, but they never get to take part in it. They like the idea of dancing, but they won’t move their feet.

3. Reserved

People who are reserved not only get to the dance, they also get on the floor. They know the value of following Christ and living the life He intended, but there’s always something holding them back. They move their feet, but they can’t quite go all in because something’s holding them back. This could be personal comfort, fear, insecurity, a competing idol, or a variety of factors.

4. Enthusiast

The enthusiast is all in. They show up, get on the floor and go all out. Enthusiast often aren’t good dancers, they just care more about what God thinks than what people think. It’s not that they don’t have insecurities, it’s just that they’ve found something greater than their insecurity. Christ is the center of all they do- work, family, leisure, finances, schedule, etc. The result is a full, deep, rich experience and a life filled with great joy and purpose.

Which kind of person are you? Which do you hope to be? What needs to change to make it happen?

  • Diana Atchley

    Great analogy Donovan. Now that many strongholds are being brought into the light – they shall be broken!!